Compassionate Grounding Tool Designed by Nancy Katyal
This practice invites a gentle return to the body and to the present moment, especially in times when we feel activated, disconnected with self or emotionally flooded.
By noticing sensations with care and curiosity, we begin to slow down our automatic reactions and listen more deeply to what is happening within us. Often, the body senses something before the mind can name it.
In the context of Nonviolent Communication, this awareness can support a more honest connection with ourselves. It can help us recognize what we are feeling, what matters to us, and what we may be longing for underneath our reactions. From that place, it often becomes easier to listen with empathy, speak with honesty, and stay present in conversations that matter.
WHY THIS PRACTICE MATTERS
When we feel more grounded in ourselves, there is often more space inside us. More space to notice. More space to choose. More space to respond with care instead of moving immediately into defense, blame, or withdrawal. Returning to the body can become a quiet anchor in moments of tension, uncertainty, or emotional intensity.
IN NVC & COMPASSIONATE DIALOGUE
This practice can be supportive before or during difficult conversations, when strong emotions arise, or anytime you want to reconnect with yourself. It may help you:
• Stay connected to the present moment
• Notice feelings and needs with more clarity
• Listen with greater empathy
• Speak with honesty and care
• Remain connected even in discomfort
The more deeply we are able to accompany ourselves, the more possible it becomes to meet others with compassion.
Compassionate Grounding Tool by Nancy Katyal- CNVC Trainer (png)
DownloadBody Sensations Tool Designed by Nancy Katyal ( English)
Body sensations are often the first signals that something alive is moving within us, before we have words for it. A tightening in the chest, warmth in the face, a knot in the stomach and these are not random; they are cues pointing toward our feelings and unmet or met needs.
Learning to notice these sensations helps us slow down the moment between stimulus and response. Instead of reacting automatically, we begin to listen inwardly. This awareness supports more honest self-connection and makes it easier to express ourselves without blame
or judgment.
Over time, tuning into the body becomes a quiet anchor. It helps us stay present in difficult conversations, recognize emotional shifts early, and respond with more clarity and care: both for ourselves and others.
Body Sensations List by Nancy Katyal, CNVC Trainer (pdf)
DownloadBody Sensations Tool Designed by Nancy Katyal & Priti Sureka
Body sensations are often the first signals that something alive is moving within us, before we have words for it. A tightening in the chest, warmth in the face, a knot in the stomach and these are not random; they are cues pointing toward our feelings and unmet or met needs.
Learning to notice these sensations helps us slow down the moment between stimulus and response. Instead of reacting automatically, we begin to listen inwardly. This awareness supports more honest self-connection and makes it easier to express ourselves without blame
or judgment.
Over time, tuning into the body becomes a quiet anchor. It helps us stay present in difficult conversations, recognize emotional shifts early, and respond with more clarity and care: both for ourselves and others.
Body Sensations by Nancy Katyal & Priti Sureka (png)
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